Ruis/ Elder (Third Aicme)
Ruis/Elder
᚛ᚏ᚜
To live with shame,
or come forth?
To lessen ones reputation,
or live a coward?
Pronunciation: RWEESH
Sound Value: R
Tree(s): Elder
Keywords:
resolutions, fulfillments, endings, regret, pride, shame, embarrassment, learning from experience
Kennings:
Morann mac Main: “Most intense of blushes”l
Word Ogham of Cu Chulainn: “Harsh anger, that is, punishment”
Elemental attribution: Earth
Calendar attribution:
November 25th- December 22
Secrets of the Fid:
Ruis embodies a dual handed aspect: one hand carries the weight of regret and shame, while the other hand holds valuable lessons from our magical practices and our ability to shape our legacy. When both aspects unite, Ruis becomes the embodiment of reflection on our past actions; serving as an anchor that helps us remain mindful of who we are and who we aspire to become. It is important to recognize that shame and regret are not merely burdens to carry; they are essential signals that guide our growth. Shame functions as a moral compass, encouraging us to keep our egos in check and reminding us to consider others. Experiencing shame or regret over past mistakes can inspire a desire for self-improvement, motivating us to avoid actions such as dishonesty or theft. These emotions require honest acknowledgment. Too often, we attempt to avoid these feelings by dismissing or minimizing our wrongdoings out of fear of confronting the truth or accepting our role in our own suffering or that of others.
Ruis encourages us to confront our shame with courage and to use it as a catalyst for growth. It is not about punishment, but about transformation. If you feel ashamed of something you've done, ask yourself: how can I become the type of person who would never consider such actions again? By overcoming the tendency to act shamefully, you take control of your moral development. If you felt embarrassed because of greed, then learn to balance frugality with generosity. Adjust your responses to circumstances rather than reacting impulsively, thereby strengthening and evolving your character.
Since humans tend to hold onto negative memories more readily than positive ones, it is crucial when invoking Ruis to acknowledge the positive aspects of yourself; qualities you are proud of and that do not inspire shame. For every mistake or shameful act, there are countless moments where you have successfully avoided shame altogether. Recognizing these victories, the times you resisted shame and fear, is vital in maintaining self-awareness and cultivating the strength to continue improving.
Divinatory meanings upright:
Healing, resolution, completion; transitions from one state of being to another; difficulties permanently overcome; an omen of success in most things.
Divinatory meanings reversed:
Endings and departures; the need to release things that are past their time; facing up to facts; embarrassment and shame; illness and disability.